I love this.
It's so true.
That ah-ha moment.
Anyway, I'd like to share here a video on a graduation speech by a student speaker, Hamza Siddiqui, from University of the Pacific, last June. It has been quite a while since I've heard a good speech, especially one that cited verses from the Qur'an itself.
Kinda gave you that warm feeling, isn't it?
My personal favourites (yes of course I have to point this out) are :
1) I've learnt that when you're heartbroken, you should place your hand on your chest and feel it beat. It's not broken yet.
2) I've learnt that it's easy to go from one relationship to another relationship, to another one, but it's a lot harder to give time to fall in love with yourself.
3) Work hard but be easy on yourself.
4) No matter how busy you get, stay in touch with your friends.
5) Know that there will be time when the people that you love will betray you, treat them with kindness and forgiveness.
6) When somebody angers you, they have conquered you. Don't let anybody conquer you.
7) I've learnt that life is really fragile. And that every single one of us are going to have to leave one day.
These are my favourites because they reflect my life journey, be it friendship, relationship etc.
So be good, everybody. It doesn't hurt, I tell ya.
I remember working with a colleague a year back. He's a good staff, it's just that the management doesn't really favour him because he is kind of a rebel, questioning some of the plans the management has in store (which by the way, benefits them more than most of us). When I messed up at work the other day, I keep telling myself what an idiot I am. That colleague then said, "Takpe, ni dunia je semuanye" I was so sentap at that time that I stayed speechless for quite a while.
Moments like that lives forever in my mind. I think it's good to hold on to things that make us stay grounded. When we think too much or let emotions get the best of us, that's when we could be doing or saying something that could be hurtful to others, sometimes without us realizing it.
Also, choose a good environment for you to develop yourself, or your family. If you're constantly having to work/grow in a negative environment, it WILL change who you originally are. Yours truly is a firm believer of that. Which is why I left a promising post in my previous job. Nearly 2 years down the road now, and I'm glad I made that decision.
Have a good weekend!
May Allah reward you with abundance of goodness :)
"It makes no difference how many peaks you reach if there was no pleasure in the climb.”